One Small Child

Several years ago our family began attending a newly established congregation of local believers, which was a big step for our growing family to move out of our comfort zone into a new place.  All of our younger children had been at our previous church home for all of their lives, so this was a big deal.  But God always blesses obedience, and He sure did this time as well.

Spring and summer come and go each year, then fall arrives followed by the cold of winter.  Much like the weather, God also sends us through seasons of life, changes which bring different types of “weather” our way.  While days of weather can challenge our moods and emotions, so can the different journeys God takes us on.  Storms come and go, and the sun rises and falls, bringing new opportunities each day to serve Him in His glory.

Our little church grew immensely after our arrival, not because of anything we did mind you, but because of what God did through us and others.  We were introduced to many new members of God’s family, experienced many lives changed, and made many new friendships.  As we celebrated the birth of our Savior each year, one of the songs our family fell in love with at our church during the Christmas season was “One Small Child”, now one of our favorites.

Our blessed little church saw many folks come and go, and as time went on, many in our congregation moved on to other places where God directed them.  As summer came to a close this year, the remainder of our church family determined that it was time to move on to other opportunities, other “seasons” to serve Him.  The doors closed.

While finalizing some of the details at our church on a hot August day, I walked into one of the small classrooms and happened upon a little manger scene, all intact and assembled nicely across the top of a lonely shelf.  Nothing else was there, just our Savior, surrounded by those in awe of His grand arrival.  I suspect one of the children in our congregation (perhaps even one of mine!) had taken the time to make sure this small band of Jesus followers was properly assembled together.  I’m glad they did.


This simple yet grand event that happened so very long ago is a simple reminder that Jesus is bigger than whatever you are facing today, bigger than the strife you may have with others, and He is able to bring healing and safety, and ultimately lead us into eternity if we would only trust Him.

As you go through this Christmas season, give the gift of kindness.  Forgive someone.  Lend a hand where it’s needed.  More than anything else, remind everyone as you go that Jesus is the Savior of the world, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  It’s His birthday.  Celebrate it!

For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”  Luke 2:11

Written by David Steen, with God Smiling, November 30, 2014.

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In Awe of His World

Wet Leaf 1God’s world is very big, but He works at a very detailed level in all of the things that are around us.  His complexity is amazing if you pause to ponder, stop to study.  Don’t blink, you might miss it.

The rain has been drizzling down on us the past few days, sometimes even by the bucketful.  Is it not funny how we attempt to describe God’s activities in human terms like “bucketful”?  We compare the brilliance in the sky of a vast sunset as something God has “painted for us”, as if He were sitting on a stool with an easel, paintbrush in hand.  Our feeble minds can’t conceive the manner in which He could place or scatter things all around us any way He wishes.

Wet Leaf 3He decorated our leaves yesterday.  I reckon He’s probably done it lots of times and I’ve just not been paying attention.  Like many of the little things in life such as a child’s hug, a nice gesture from a friend, an unexpected card in the mail or a cool breeze on a hot day.

Oh, yes, back to the leaf decorating.  Hundreds of droplets of water, like pearls elegantly arrayed on a wedding gown.  All shapes and sizes, placed there by the Creator of Creation, thought out in vivid detail long before my arrival on the earth.  How many times has He decorated a leaf, just waiting to add it to the bouquet perfectly displayed for us across the whole tree, against the backdrop of an entire forest.  Yet we don’t stop to notice.

He is good.  In fact, one of the miracles He continues to accomplish, just when you least expect it, is the transformed life of a lost sinner.

Wet Leaf 2The extravagant beauty He displays on these watermarked leaves is much the same as the extravagant grace displayed in a changed heart for Him.  Fresh, new and vibrantly alive.

I’m glad He came in and changed mine.

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, October 13, 2014.

(Artwork provided by God, pictures taken by me)

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Sunday Morning Buffaloes

Ever experience that magical event that occurs when you place a yard sale sign in front of your house?  The sign seems to act like a homing beacon of sorts, emitting some kind of bargain hunter attractant and suddenly, ten cars appear out of nowhere.  Pouring out of the vehicles emerge gangs of folks ready to give you next-to-nothing for everything you have on display.

Another similar “alarm” that goes off in our house is when I turn on the shower in the master bathroom on Sunday mornings as we get ready for church.  For some reason the squeak of that knob turning in the shower causes children to begin congregating just outside of where I am trying to maintain some level of privacy (and decency!).  The mirror in our bathroom seems to be the only place in the house that can be utilized for the brushing and combing of hair and doing all manner of preparations for departing the premises.  As the water trickles down my backside thoughts begin going through my head such as, “Didn’t we build this house with multiple bathrooms for a reason?”  Soon the completion of my brief bathing experience necessitates the herding of children away in order to protect their innocence as well as provide me the remainder of my privacy.

Shortly I emerge with partial clothing on and make my way to the sink to finish the job I’d started of making myself presentable to the outside world.  Word gets out that Daddy is out of the shower and the gathering of souls resumes as some of the little people make their way back to the family reunion.  I then begin the wonderful process of shaving, a ritual that I strongly dislike.  I smear on some shaving cream and get down to business.  As I hurriedly remove whiskers as fast as possible so as not to be late for church, Olivia curiously observes as usual.  Watching intently, she said, “Daddy, when you do that it makes you smell like Daddy.”  That seemed to make perfect sense to me.

Gathering socks and shoes to complete my wardrobe I had to say excuse me to the crowd a time or two more prior to departing the preparation room.  With my smooth face and completed outfit intact I began assisting my lovely wife in going down the checklist regarding those gathered around to make sure that all hairs were in place and loins properly girded.  As the official time checker I began the routine of notifying everyone regarding how many minutes remained until departure.  Soon we all made our way down the stairs and loaded up the van, ready to be happily on our way down the road.

On that particular Sunday, as we were scurrying along on our way to church I made my way down our usual route.  Taking a left turn off of the main highway onto the small county road that we travel down, Holly blurted out, “Daddy, did you see that buffalo squashed on the side of the road?”  That brought a moment of concern to my mind as to whether I was going blind and missed a giant beast on the side of the road, or whether Holly knew what she was talking about, so I replied back to her with my usual, “Huh?”

Holly then replied, “Yeah, there was a buffalo on the side of the road squashed, you know, one of those things that has the shell on it.”

The lights came on for me as I connected the dots and pictured Holly’s buffalo in my mind, the usual armadillo that is seen frequently, feet upward, as we travel about in the summer along the rural roads of Arkansas.  I said, “Oh, you mean an armadillo?” to which she replied, “Yeah, that’s it!”  Laughter ensued.


Armadillo, buffalo, what’s the difference?  It’s easy to get lost in the translation.

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, summer of 2013.

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Cake for Dinner

Birthday CakeAhh.  Nothing like the smooth taste of a piece of white birthday cake smothered with a heaping helping of butter cream icing.  As it passes through my cake-hole, leaving a film of grease along my palate, a couple of swigs of hot black coffee clears the way quite nicely…for another bite.

As the day came to a close and the dust settled on another birthday celebration, the kids seemed quite disinterested in having dinner.  Their bellies were full of cake, ice cream, strawberry soda, M&Ms, and no telling what else.  I’m not really sure why I was thinking of dinner either, given all the junk that has passed through my gullet today, but when my belly clock agrees with the wall clock, it surely must be dinner time.  I asked my better half if we should just have cake for dinner, and she seemed to be in agreement.

Maybe I really should have just had cake for dinner!  It may have been less detrimental on my long term health than the ham, turkey, and double cheese sandwich I ate, topped with a generous portion of mayo, followed by the aforementioned piece of birthday cake, my second of the day.  I’m a mess, but my stomach sure feels full now.

We attempted to trick the kids tonight, but not sure how that’s gonna pan out.  That wonderful time of year has arrived when we get to “spring forward”, as they say.  Katrina and I agreed earlier in the evening that we should just go ahead and set the clocks forward, and then just go to bed extra early.  The kids seem to be going along with it so far.  Does that mean we don’t lose an hour of sleep, or that we just get to lay there wide awake for an hour longer?  Well, I don’t know about everyone else in the house, but I’m feeling a butter cream coma coming on, so I should snooze quite nicely.  I think this time change business is for the birds, but since my eyelids are getting heavy and it’s technically only around 8:30, I’ll….have…….to……..finish..(yawn)….this in………the morning!

It’s morning.  After a wild night of storms which delivered a generous portion of thunder, lightning and rain, the sun somehow knew how to come across the horizon.  Although shielded by thick cloud cover, the light of day certainly did arrive.  It didn’t care what the clocks said.  It just came as God ordered it.

“The sun also rises, and the sun goes down, and hastens to the place where it arose.”  Ecclesiastes 1:5

The trickery of this time change madness has cast a spell of sorts on the five little people of the house.  I’ll have to prod them along soon enough to let them know that their body clock does not seem to be in agreement with the one on the wall.  While they may not really appreciate it this morning, I’m sure they’ll be tickled tonight when they have an additional hour to roam around the hillside.

Time to get ready for church!

“Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing.”  Psalm 100:2

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, March 9-10, 2013

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A Roaring Tormato

Front Porch Wind Chime

Our Audible & Visual Wind Indicator

Our home is affixed on a hill.  Stonebridge Hill to be precise.  In the many years that we have made our dwelling here, we have gotten quite accustomed to some certain things associated with our property, not the least of which is how the weather comes and goes across the hill.

Last evening we sat down to our feast of Mexican turkey.  My lovely bride and I were excited.  Others were not.  Usually this blessed concoction consists of a mixture of chicken, broth, tortilla chips, cream of chicken soup, and diced tomatoes with green chilies, topped with a generous layer of shredded cheddar cheese.  Leftover gobbler from our Sunday meal stood in as a substitute for the prescribed poultry.

When “It’s ready!” was proclaimed by the queen, it was music to my ears and I abandoned my bill paying and rushed downstairs to be the first in line at the trough.  The little people trickled in slowly from the outer reaches of the property, punishing me for arriving too early and having to prolong my anticipation to dig in.  As Olivia and I sat on our perches at the table, awaiting the arrival of the others, we admired the roar of the wind as it rushed up our driveway.  As it made its way through the trees and around the red brick corners of the house, it moaned “oooooohh, OOOOOHHHH, OOOOOOOOHHHH!” as it blew around the corners and crevices.

I turned over to Olivia at my left and did my best verbal impression of the wind a couple of times, pointing out to her the sound and power of it.  Her eyes were wild with the same excitement and fascination that I was feeling.  She looked at me with all the seriousness she could muster and proclaimed, “Yeah, it sounds like a tormato!”  Laughter ensued from me and the rest of the small crowd that had gathered.

I can’t help but wonder if that is what it felt like to Elijah when he hid in that “cleft of the rock” as the Glory of the Lord passed over in 1 Kings chapter 19?

“And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.”

When the windy storms pass over our house it’s rather exciting to stand on the second floor and gaze out the window in amazement as the tall slender trees whip back and forth like blades of grass in a summer breeze.  God’s magnificence is much the same way but a hundredfold more.  Yet, as exciting as those moments are, I covet those times in which God isn’t like a roaring mighty wind at all, but a whispering still small voice that causes my heart to quiver and draws my soul to Him.

I long for more of those days.

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, February 19-20, 2013

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Grandpa Santa

Silence is golden.  I’m thankful that Katrina added water to our large fish aquarium in the living room last night before going to bed.  Yesterday the sound was atrocious, as if I were on a white water rafting trip while trying to concentrate on my reading.  Perhaps at times it is nice to hear that sound, but when I am basking in the golden glow of solitude it is less than desirable.

Snowy Hillside Dec 26 2012On the other hand, the wind chime outside is delightful.  As I look out the French doors and see the remaining leaves on the trees waving in the cool breeze, the melodic sounds of the wind chime provide secondary evidence of the blustery winter outside.  A few large oak branches display what is left of the white Christmas God blessed us with, which has still not completely melted away.  Yes, winter came with the vengeance this week.  Perhaps the Mayan calendar got it wrong predicting the end of the world last week, but our calendar on the wall was quite right when it predicted the first day of winter.  It’s here.

What is the matter with me?  Now that we have gotten near the end of this never-ending feasting binge, my body is asking me what I am doing to it.  My head has been pounding, which I attribute a great deal to my sinuses.  My stomach has not known the feeling of emptiness for quite some time.  I suppose I am suffering from junk food overload.

Yes, Christmas is over and done with again, at least the main part of the gluttony, gathering and gift-giving.  The aftermath has still not been dealt with, such as collecting all of the decorations and packing them away.  I’m not sure what we taught the kids about not getting caught up in the hustle and bustle of it all again this year, but we certainly tried to tone it down a bit from previous years.

We came to the conclusion last year that we would no longer participate in the Santa lie.  There, I said it.  Yes, it’s just a big hoax.  Having intellectual children who continue to age and challenge why we do things the way we do was no small contributor to that.  Not to mention that we have gone to great lengths to teach them the real meaning of Christmas, which is about the birth of our savior, The Lord Jesus Christ.  However, our youngest is still trying to put it all together in her wee mind.  Then again, maybe I still am, too.

Olivia and Santa 2012On the Sunday before Christmas we spent the day with my family, enjoying the fellowship, gift-giving and feasting there.  The moment we arrived we were greeted by Santa (Grandpa), and Mrs. Claus (Grandma).  Santa was sitting in his chair, and Mrs. Claus had her camera in hand, ready for everyone to line up for photos.  The most excited of them all was our little Olivia.  She was all aglow with excitement and wonder, ready to see what Santa had in store for her.  One had to wonder what was going through her mind as she sat on the lap of Santa and Grandpa all at the same time, listening to his cheery voice and seeing his real, very white, winter beard.

After everyone had their turn with Santa (even some of the reluctant big kids), we turned to unwrapping scores of presents, and then the feasting began full swing, although most of Olivia Santa Hat 2012us had already been grazing like cows in the trough.  One plate after another we gobbled up a plethora of sweets and junk food until we settled into an afternoon slumber, asking ourselves “what have I done to myself?”  After we had all but given up on the food, Olivia and Grandpa began what seemed like a contest of who could do the best Santa impression.  Olivia donned a Santa cap and began doing her best rendition of “Ho, Ho, Ho”, and as everyone looked on with laughter, it seemed to fuel her energy to do it more and more, with Grandpa throwing in his version every once in a while.

The excitement eventually died down as it neared time to return home, and the kids were given the orders to get more to eat if they wanted it, because as I always say, “You better eat now.  This is dinner and we’re not eating when we get home!”  They seem to always comply, which they did, and hugs and thanks were exchanged and we were on our way.

On Christmas Eve morning we woke up and began preparing for our second day of celebration with Katrina’s family.  With no reduced amount of excitement the kids were all ready to make the short trek to Nana’s house to fill their stomachs with all manner of goodies once again, not to mention open a present or two there as well.  After a full afternoon of feasting and fun with Nana and Papa, we finally arrived home to settle in for our own Christmas.

It was quite nice to sit down at home on Christmas Eve and know that most everything was in place, including our donuts that the kids and I had traveled to the bakery to retrieve that morning.  The chocolate milk was on hand in the fridge, right next to the turkey thawing for the Christmas day feast.  What more could you ask for?  A fire.

As everyone else was pillaging through things they had gotten from all of their grandparents, I began stirring through the ashes in the fireplace to get a warm fire blazing.  I went through my usual routine, rolling up old newspapers, adding the kindling, and then adding a stick or two of small pieces of wood.  With the perfect combination of combustible materials, I struck the match and stepped back.

One problem.  We noticed that the living room began filling with smoke.  As the fire caught on rather quickly, I had but a moment to figure out what the problem was.  I’m kinda lazy when it comes to closing the flue once we build our first fire of the season (which we already had), so I didn’t think that could be the problem.  Nonetheless, I reached up quickly and gave it a yank, and to my surprise, it had been closed.  “Hmm, that’s odd”, I said to myself, as the smoke began charting its course up the chimney.

I quickly got the ceiling fans running at a low roar to evacuate the smoke, and then began asking who closed the flue.  I knew that most of the kids probably didn’t even know there was one, but being the one to always want to get to the bottom of things, I asked around and got no immediate answers.

After giving up on the “Whodunit” game, I sat down in front of my blazing creation and enjoyed its magnificent warmth.  Soon, Olivia came and sat down beside me, happy to have the fire as well.  After sitting there for a moment, she leaned over to me and said in her little quiet voice, “I closed it, Daddy.  I was scared that Grandpa would come down the chimney and get burned by the fire.”

“For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder.  And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”  Isaiah 9:6

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, December 29, 2012

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Buried Treasure

Boys like to dig.  I suppose I did my share of it when I was once one, and have done plenty since, but there is just something inside of most boys that make them want to dig in the dirt.  Grandpas are no exception.

The notion of buried treasure comes to mind.  Something inside of us wants to strike it rich.  When you get right down to it, good old fashioned greed is probably the culprit.  Just ask those poor saps who fling a dollar down at the quick-pick occasionally to buy a lottery ticket and you’ll hear the same notion—the idea of something for nothing.

A few weeks ago my dad and I, along with my nephew and my two youngest boys, set out to find our buried treasure.  Now I’ve spent most of my life hearing tales of those who have been to the only diamond-producing site in the world that is open to the public, but I’ve never actually been there.  The Crater of Diamonds State Park, located in Murfreesboro, Arkansas, a couple of hours from home, was our destination.  We had digging on the brain, and figured our boys did, too.

On a warm Sunday afternoon, we joined up, loaded our treasure hunting tools, and set out to find some diamonds.  We didn’t particularly want to spend all of our time driving there and back in the same day, so we had planned in advance to drive down the day before our expedition, stay in a hotel, and hit the ground running early the next day.  Maybe if we got there early we would beat the crowd to “the big one”!

After leaving the river valley and enjoying a leisurely drive through the Ouachita Mountains, we arrived in diamond country, checked into our hotel, and focused our mind on one thing, eating.  We had predetermined that pizza was the food of choice, and with all of us famished we invaded the local Pizza Hut.  Soon our starving appetites were being fed with loads of cheese, meat, and dough, and it wasn’t long before we had certainly had our fill, and then some.

Arriving back at the hotel, the boys, who had probably not overindulged as much as Dad and I had, were giddy and anxious to hop in the indoor pool.  I think Dad and I would have probably been content to lay on the bed in our grease-overdosed misery, but we went along for the ride.  We all suited up and headed for a swim, which the boys enjoyed thoroughly.

With bellies full of pizza and worn out from our swim, we all settled into the room with visions of diamonds on the brain.  When we asked the boys what they would do if they found a diamond, they all insisted that they would keep it.  I have to confess that my greedy mind was contriving a picture of me sitting across from a jeweler in a nice suit, watching him count out stacks of money as I cashed in my large gem.

On Monday morning, bright and early, we gathered up the boys and our overnight gear, loaded up on breakfast (as if we needed it), and headed down the road.  As we drove toward diamond country we passed through the thriving metropolis of Hollywood, Arkansas.  While it was not exactly overflowing with the glitz and glamour of the Hollywood that most think of, it seemed ironic that we would be passing through Hollywood on our road to riches.

Arriving at the Crater of Diamonds state park, we were amazed at the crowd of prospectors that had beaten us to the scene.  Although we had anticipated warmer weather, there was a bit of a nip in the air that sunny morning, along with a steady breeze.  We all gathered a load of buckets and shovels and walked up the hill to the entrance of the “mine”.  Greeted by a friendly staff in a very nice visitor’s center, we looked at the diamonds they had on display and got a good picture in our mind of what we were looking for.

Down the hill from the visitor’s center was another building where a park attendant was giving a history lesson about the volcano that had blown up there 95 million years ago, which is what created the scattering of diamonds throughout the park.  I wanted to interject to let her know that that was impossible, because according to biblical history, the earth had only been here for about 6,000 years, but I held my tongue.  She did a grand illustration of how to use a set of screens to dry sift for diamonds, as well as how to sift them through water to really get to the good stuff.

With shovels, buckets, and a set of screens we rented from the park, the five of us headed to the diamond pit—a 37 ½ acre field that looked as though it had been lacking of corn seed for quite some time.  With plenty of dirt to dig in, we laid claim to a spot and commenced to excavating.  We dug and sifted, sifted and dug.  Somehow, we didn’t hear any loud shrieks of “eureka!” but we kept on digging.  Not long into our digging venture our five prospector team had diminished to two—me and Dad.  The boys had become disinterested in diamonds and soon began wandering up and down the rows of dirt seeking other forms of entertainment.

A few hours into our adventure we had found nothing beyond of a bucket full of fine gravel.  The lady had told us during the training session that this gravel was likely the source of a good diamond, especially if sifted through water.  So we set out to wash our gravel and find the big one that way.  A huge station of sifting troughs were set up near the field, and we stood shoulder to shoulder with some other folks, sifting gravel in cold water as a stiff breeze blew.  The cold water and breeze heightened our desire to get done and get out of there.

A trained specialist was ready to review our potential finds as we exited the park.  We had our doubts regarding the specimens we had picked out, but we had them checked nonetheless.  The lady confirmed what we had suspected—we had found nothing more than a few bits of worthless rock.

Cold and hungry, we left the park around lunchtime as hoards of other visitors/prospectors headed for the dirt pit.  They had not yet discovered the joy of digging as we had, but they surely had a good afternoon that was starting to warm up for them.  Our team, on the other hand, was ready to get out of there.  With souvenirs in hand that Grandpa had purchased for the boys inside the visitor’s center, they were quite happy.  We grabbed a snack in the van and then headed down the road homeward.

Not long into our journey home we found a local greasy spoon and had some lunch to top off the snack we had already eaten.  With our appetites for food, as well as digging for treasure, satisfied, we headed back north toward home.  Our journey had not produced a grand treasure, but the real gem of our trip was the time that we got to spend just hanging out together.

Written by David Steen, with God smiling, April 16, 2011

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